Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Unrequited

The Dane said he isn't boyfriend material and if I've learned anything in my 27 years its that when a man tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you - for whatever reason - listen to him. I am not going to change his mind with wooing or sex or determination. He will come to it on his own. But I'm not holding a candle or my breath hoping he changes his mind.

I ran into him on the street a few weeks ago and things happen as they do and I woke up with him in my bed and then with him having coffee and sharing a day old Wall Street Journal and knew then that I was falling in love with him. This  cannot be an option in my carefully orchestrated life. He doesn't want a relationship. I need to not think myself in love with him.

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