I like The New Coworker, I do. He smells nice and appreciates my humor and understands numbers and is outgoing and stays busy. He likes me too. I made a point of having a conversation with him saying that I'm interested now but I will very suddenly become apathetic and for seemingly no reason at all. Or maybe for the reason that my brain catches up with my ill-fated desires a few weeks in and I'm no longer surrounded by a rush of good feelings but simply just this one person, as human as I am.
So I've decided to make a pros and cons list about this man. I've decided to pinpoint the red flags now so that I can move on early or try to be educated about this if we decide to make a go of it. I have to try to stop it from derailing suddenly and making my work situation dramatic.
Maybe I could just stop pursuing coworkers. Can it be that easy?
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