All cards on the table

So The Older Man is also a Recovering Alcoholic. Six years sober.

My immediate reaction was What else do you do on a first date besides get drinks? Which then made me reassess my idea of dating, my idea of getting to know someone, how I spend my time within social relationships. But also, that's a lot of baggage to bring to the table, so aren't I justified just a little?

I mean. I don't even know him. So this feels like a lot.